Reminiscing on a year gone by…
People say the first year, or months, or whatever, you forget. I disagree; I remember the details. More than anything, I remember the feelings. The struggles… We were possibly the most clueless parents ever. Another baby prior would’ve kept us busier, but I think it would’ve been easier, especially if our children were planned, or we had prior experience with babies. Or a nanny. Or family here. It would have helped if I hadn’t been entering my 2nd year in a PhD program, too… Learning it all for the first time with 3 was…ahem…difficult. I would never change the fact that my…